TRANSCRIPT
# Introduction to the Episode
Host Brian: Hello, everyone! Welcome back to English on the Go, where we help you learn anywhere and speak everywhere. I’m Brian, and I’m so glad you’re joining me for today’s episode.Host Brian: Let’s dive into an interesting topic that you’re going to find very useful for your conversations!
Host Brian: Today, we’ll be talking about flirting—what it means and how to do it in a respectful and fun way.
Host Brian: Flirting is a form of social interaction where someone shows romantic or playful interest in another person. Some people find it natural, while others need to practice.
Host Brian: Let’s find out more as we hear a conversation between two friends discussing flirting tips.
# Pre-listening Questions
Host Brian: Before we jump into today’s conversation, let’s take a moment to think about your own experiences. These questions will help you focus on the topic and get ready for what’s coming:1. What does flirting mean to you?
2. Do you think flirting is necessary to start a relationship?
3. What are some signs that someone is flirting with you?
# Conversation
Characters: Lisa (a confident girl) & Clem (a curious guy)Lisa: So, Clem, you’ve been single for a while now. Have you tried flirting with anyone recently?
Clem: Haha, no, not really. I feel like I don’t know how to flirt. I don’t even know where to start!
Lisa: Flirting is easier than you think. It’s all about being playful and showing interest without being too serious.
Clem: But how do you show interest without making it awkward?
Lisa: Well, body language is key. Smiling, making eye contact, and lightly touching someone’s arm can send a message without words. You also want to keep the conversation light and fun.
Clem: Light and fun? So no deep conversations about life and philosophy?
Lisa: Exactly! Save those for later. For now, just be curious about the other person. Ask questions about them, listen carefully, and make small compliments.
Clem: What kind of compliments?
Lisa: Something simple and genuine. Like, “I love your laugh” or “You have a great sense of style.” It’s not about being cheesy.
Clem: Hmm… I guess I could try that. But what if they don’t respond well?
Lisa: That’s the thing about flirting—it’s not always a guaranteed success. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn’t. But don’t take it personally.
Clem: I see. So flirting is like a game?
Lisa: Yeah, but not in a manipulative way. It’s just a fun way to see if there’s mutual interest. And remember, the best flirting is respectful.
Clem: Right, respect is important. I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.
Lisa: Exactly. If you sense that the other person isn’t interested, it’s important to back off and not push it.
Clem: Got it. So, light conversation, body language, and respect. Anything else?
Lisa: Just be yourself! Authenticity is the most attractive thing. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just to impress someone.
Clem: I’ll keep that in mind. Thanks for the tips, Lisa. Maybe I’ll give flirting a shot soon!
Lisa: Go for it! Just have fun with it.
# Vocabulary Analysis
Host Brian: Now that we’ve heard the conversation, let’s talk about some key vocabulary related to flirting.• Flirting: It means to show romantic or playful interest in someone.
Example: “Lisa thinks Clem should try flirting to meet someone new.”
• Body language: It refers to non-verbal communication through gestures, facial expressions, and posture.
Example: “Flirting often involves smiling and using positive body language.”
• Compliment: A polite expression of praise or admiration.
Example: “Clem learned that a simple compliment like ‘I love your laugh’ can be a good way to flirt.”
Host Brian: Listen to the conversation again, and this time, try to identify these words as you listen.
# Comprehension Questions
Host Brian: Now that we’ve explored some key vocabulary, let’s reflect on what we’ve heard. I’ll ask you a few questions to see how well you understood the conversation. Think about what happened and try to answer them in your own words.1. Why does Lisa think flirting is easier than Clem believes?
2. What are some of the non-verbal ways Lisa mentions to flirt?
3. Why is it important to keep the conversation light when flirting?
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# Post-listening Questions
Host Brian: Now that you've heard the conversation, let’s think a bit deeper. These questions are designed to help you reflect on what you’ve learned and connect it to your own life:Host Brian: Have you ever flirted with someone before?
Host Brian: Do you think body language is important in communication? Why?
Host Brian: What tips from the conversation would you try in real life?
# Conclusion
Host Brian: That’s all for today’s episode. Remember, flirting can be fun and respectful, but it’s important to be yourself and stay authentic.Host Brian: Also, we’ve prepared a special free PDF for this episode, full of useful tips and vocabulary to help you learn more. Make sure to check it out! See you next time on English on the Go!
EXERCISE
Exercise 1: Fill-in-the-Blanks
Listen to the podcast and fill in the blanks with the correct words:
1. Clem says he doesn’t know where to start when it comes to _______.
2. Lisa says body _______ is a key part of flirting.
3. Clem learns that keeping the conversation _______ and fun is important.
4. Lisa suggests giving _______ that are simple and genuine.
5. Clem feels that flirting can sometimes be _______.
6. Lisa says not to take flirting too _______ if it doesn’t work out.
7. Clem wonders if flirting is like a _______.
8. Lisa says the most attractive thing is being _______.
9. If someone isn’t interested, Lisa suggests it’s important to back _______.
10. Clem says he might give flirting a _______ soon.
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Exercise 2: Vocabulary Matching
| Word | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Flirting | Showing romantic or playful interest in someone. |
| Body language | Non-verbal communication through gestures, facial expressions, etc. |
| Compliment | A polite expression of praise or admiration. |
| Authenticity | The quality of being real or genuine. |
| Respect | Showing consideration for the feelings and rights of others. |
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Exercise 3: True or False
Listen to the podcast and decide whether the following statements are true or false:
1. Clem is confident about his flirting skills. (True / False)
2. Lisa advises Clem to have deep conversations right from the beginning. (True / False)
3. Lisa says compliments should be cheesy to impress someone. (True / False)
4. Clem learns that it’s important to be respectful when flirting. (True / False)
5. Lisa suggests being someone you’re not is the best way to flirt. (True / False)
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Exercise 4: Multiple Choice
Choose the correct answer based on the podcast:
1. What does Lisa suggest Clem should focus on while flirting?
a) Deep and meaningful conversations
b) Complimenting the person’s appearance
c) Keeping things light and fun
2. According to Lisa, what is a key part of flirting?
a) Complaining
b) Body language
c) Silence
3. What kind of compliments does Lisa suggest?
a) Insincere and exaggerated compliments
b) Simple and genuine compliments
c) Over-the-top compliments about appearance
4. What should Clem do if the other person isn’t responding to his flirting?
a) Try harder to get their attention
b) Back off and respect their space
c) Ignore the signs and keep talking
5. What does Lisa think is the most attractive thing in a person?
a) Being authentic and real
b) Being rich
c) Being mysterious
Exercise 5: Choose the Correct Word
Instruction: Fill in the blanks with the correct word from the options provided.
1. Lisa says that playful/serious body language is essential in flirting.
2. Clem learns that confidence/authenticity is the most attractive quality.
3. Lisa suggests keeping compliments cheesy/simple and genuine.
4. Clem feels that deep conversations are better saved/avoided for later in flirting.
5. According to Lisa, respect/disrespect is critical to avoid making someone uncomfortable.
6. Flirting should be lighthearted/serious rather than intense.
7. Lisa explains that good flirting shows interest/disinterest without overwhelming the other person.
8. Lisa thinks that starting/waiting for the "perfect moment" can often delay things unnecessarily.
9. Clem plans to give flirting a try soon, hoping it will be fun/difficult as Lisa suggested.
10. Clem finds that eye contact/avoiding eye contact can help show interest without using words.
Exercise 6: Word Rearrangement
Instruction: Rearrange the following jumbled words to form coherent phrases or sentences based on the conversation.
1. flirting / when / awkward / it / is / make / you / someone / don’t
2. don’t / people / respect / uncomfortable / make / want / anyone
3. light / conversation / work / best / flirting / for
4. respect / important / is / flirting / the / in
5. like / flirt / when / feel / you / how / don’t / sure / you
6. playful / flirting / being / about / is
7. yourself / be / authenticity / attractive / most / is / the
8. not / personal / take / it / if / works / always / personally
9. a / someone / compliment / small / genuine / give
10. awkward / anyone / to / don’t / want / make
Exercise 7: Opinion Writing
Instruction: Based on the conversation, write a brief paragraph (3-5 sentences) sharing your own opinion on whether flirting is an effective way to show interest in someone. Support your response with reasons.
ANSWER KEYS
Exercise 1: Fill-in-the-Blanks
1. flirting
2. start
3. playful
4. awkward
5. arm
6. deep
7. curious
8. compliments
9. style
10. respond
11. personally
12. game
13. mutual
14. respect
15. push
16. else
17. Authenticity
18. tips
19. fun
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Exercise 2: Vocabulary Matching
Body language means Non-verbal communication through gestures, facial expressions, etc.
Compliment means A polite expression of praise or admiration.
Authenticity means The quality of being real or genuine.
Respect means Showing consideration for the feelings and rights of others.
Exercise 3: True or False
1. False
2. False
3. False
4. True
5. False
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Exercise 4: Multiple Choice
1. c) Keeping things light and fun
2. b) Body language
3. b) Simple and genuine compliments
4. b) Back off and respect their space
5. a) Being authentic and real
Exercise 5: Choose the Correct Word
1. playful
2. authenticity
3. simple
4. saved
5. respect
6. lighthearted
7. interest
8. waiting
9. fun
10. eye contact
Exercise 6: Word Rearrangement
1. Don’t make it awkward when you’re flirting with someone.
2. You don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable; respect people.
3. Light conversation works best for flirting.
4. Respect is important in flirting.
5. How do you flirt when you don’t feel sure of yourself?
6. Flirting is about being playful.
7. Being yourself is the most attractive quality.
8. If it doesn’t work, don’t take it personally.
9. Give someone a small, genuine compliment.
10. Don’t want to make anyone feel awkward.
Exercise 7: Opinion Writing
Example Answer: Flirting should be approached casually because it’s a way to see if there’s mutual interest without pressure. When people take it too seriously, it can create awkwardness or unrealistic expectations. Keeping things light allows for a natural connection to form if it’s meant to be.
