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1. INTRODUCTION TO THE EPISODE
Host Alex: Hi everyone, and welcome back to English on the Go! I’m your host, Alex. Today, we’re discussing a topic that plays a crucial role in both our personal and professional lives: how to make good first impressions.
Host Alex: First impressions can set the tone for all future interactions, whether you’re meeting a potential employer, making new friends, or even just greeting a neighbor.
Host Alex: It’s amazing how quickly people form opinions about us, often within just a few seconds! So today, we’ll explore some effective tips and strategies to ensure you leave a positive mark on those you meet for the first time.
2. PRE-LISTENING QUESTIONS
Host Alex : Before we jump into our conversation, let’s set the stage with a few thought-provoking questions.
Host Alex: These will help you reflect on the topic and prepare for our discussion. Here are some questions to consider:
Host Alex: First, what do you think makes a strong first impression? Is it your appearance, body language, or perhaps your words?
Host Alex: Second, how do you usually feel when meeting someone for the first time? Do you experience excitement, nervousness, or confidence?
Host Alex: Lastly, think about a time when you made a memorable first impression. What actions or qualities helped you create that impact?
3. MAIN CONVERSATION
Sarah: Hey David, have you ever thought about how much a first impression can affect our interactions with others?
David: Absolutely, Sarah! I think it’s one of the most important things to consider when meeting someone new. You only get one chance to make a good impression, right?
Sarah: Exactly! I believe that a friendly smile is a great way to start. It shows that you’re approachable and open to conversation.
David: I agree! A smile can instantly put people at ease. Another important aspect is eye contact. It’s crucial to maintain eye contact during a conversation. It shows confidence and that you’re engaged.
Sarah: Yes, and it also helps build trust. When you look someone in the eye, it conveys sincerity. But what about body language? I think that plays a huge role in making a good first impression.
David: Definitely! Your body language can say a lot about how you feel. Standing or sitting up straight shows that you’re confident and interested. On the other hand, crossing your arms or slouching can come off as defensive or uninterested.
Sarah: That's true! And let’s not forget about our appearance. Dressing appropriately for the occasion is essential. It shows respect for the other person and the situation.
David: For sure! If you’re going to a job interview, for example, wearing professional attire can really make a difference. It gives off a positive vibe that you’re serious about the opportunity.
Sarah: Exactly! And beyond just clothes, personal hygiene is important too. Simple things like being well-groomed can enhance the impression you leave on others.
David: And then there’s the power of small talk. It can help break the ice. Starting with light conversation topics can make the other person feel comfortable.
Sarah: Right! Simple questions like How was your weekend? or commenting on the weather can help ease into a deeper conversation later.
David: Another tip is to listen actively. Showing genuine interest in what the other person is saying can really enhance the interaction. Nodding and responding appropriately can make the other person feel valued.
Sarah: Definitely! Listening is just as important as speaking. And don’t forget to ask questions in return. It helps keep the conversation balanced and engaging.
David: Speaking of engagement, it’s important to remember names. When you meet someone new, try to remember their name and use it during the conversation. It personalizes the interaction.
Sarah: Yes! People love hearing their names. It makes them feel acknowledged and special. And if you forget, don’t hesitate to ask again!
David: Another point to consider is being authentic. People can usually tell when someone is being insincere. Being yourself and showing genuine enthusiasm can leave a lasting impression.
Sarah: Absolutely! Authenticity shines through, and it helps create a connection. And one last thing—be mindful of your tone of voice. The way you speak can convey warmth and friendliness.
David: Exactly! A friendly tone can make a huge difference in how your message is received.
Sarah: So, to sum it up, making a good first impression involves a combination of a warm smile, confident body language, appropriate dress, and active listening.
David: And don’t forget to be authentic and engaged! Those qualities can really set you apart in someone’s memory.
4. VOCABULARY ANALYSIS
Host Alex: Now that we’ve heard some great tips from Sarah and David, let’s take a moment to look at some key vocabulary that came up in the conversation.
Host Alex: First up, First Impression. This refers to the initial perception someone forms about you when they first meet you.
Host Alex: For example, 'Making a good first impression is essential in networking situations.'
Host Alex: Next is Body Language. This means the non-verbal signals we use to communicate.
Host Alex: For instance, 'Positive body language can help you connect with others.'
Host Alex: Another important term is Active Listening. This refers to fully concentrating on what is being said, rather than just passively hearing the speaker.
Host Alex: An example is, 'Active listening involves nodding and responding to show you are engaged.'
Host Alex: Finally, we have Authenticity. This means being genuine and true to yourself.
Host Alex: For example, 'People appreciate authenticity in conversations.'
Host Alex: Let’s listen to the conversation again. This time, see if you can spot these words.
5. COMPREHENSION QUESTIONS
Host Alex: Now that we’ve explored the conversation about making good first impressions, let’s test your understanding with some comprehension questions.
Host Alex: These will help you reflect on what you heard and reinforce the key points discussed. Host Alex: Listen carefully to each question and think back to the conversation.
Host Alex: Here we go:
Host Alex: First, what are some key strategies mentioned for making a positive first impression?
Host Alex: Next, how can body language impact the way others perceive you during initial meetings?
Host Alex: Lastly, why is it important to be authentic when meeting someone for the first time?
6. POST-LISTENING QUESTIONS
Host Now that we’ve wrapped up our discussion on making good first impressions, let’s take a moment to reflect on your own experiences.
Host Alex: These post-listening questions are designed to help you connect what you’ve learned with real-life situations.
Host Alex: Think about your answers and how you can apply this knowledge moving forward:
Host Alex: First, how do you plan to implement the strategies for making a good first impression in your own life?
Host Alex: Second, can you identify a situation where you might need to improve your first impression skills?
Host Alex: Lastly, what is one takeaway from today’s conversation that you believe could significantly impact your interactions with others?
7. CONCLUSION
Host Brian: Thanks for joining me today! I hope this conversation helped you understand how to make good first impressions.
Host Alex: Remember, every interaction is an opportunity to connect with someone new.
Host Alex: We’ve prepared a special free PDF for this episode, full of useful tips and vocabulary to help you learn more.
Host Alex: Make sure to check it out! See you next time on English on the Go!EXERCISE
EXERCISE 1: Fill in the Blanks
Instruction: Listen to the conversation and fill in the blanks with the appropriate words
Sarah: Hey David, have you ever thought about how much a first impression can (1)______ our interactions with others?
David: Absolutely, Sarah! I think it’s one of the most important things to (2)______ when meeting someone new. You only get one chance to make a good impression, right?
Sarah: Exactly! I believe that a friendly (3)______ is a great way to start. It shows that you’re approachable and open to conversation.
David: I agree! A smile can instantly put people at ease. Another important aspect is eye (4)______. It’s crucial to maintain eye contact during a conversation. It shows confidence and that you’re engaged.
Sarah: Yes, and it also helps build (5)______. When you look someone in the eye, it conveys sincerity. But what about body language? I think that plays a huge role in making a good first impression.
David: Definitely! Your body language can say a lot about how you (6)______. Standing or sitting up straight shows that you’re confident and interested. On the other hand, crossing your arms or slouching can come off as defensive or uninterested.
Sarah: That's true! And let’s not forget about our (7)______. Dressing appropriately for the occasion is essential. It shows respect for the other person and the situation.
David: For sure! If you’re going to a job (8)______, for example, wearing professional attire can really make a difference. It gives off a positive vibe that you’re serious about the opportunity.
Sarah: Exactly! And beyond just clothes, personal (9)______ is important too. Simple things like being well-groomed can enhance the impression you leave on others.
David: And then there’s the power of small talk. It can help break the (10)______. Starting with light conversation topics can make the other person feel comfortable.
Sarah: Right! Simple questions like How was your weekend? or commenting on the (11)______ can help ease into a deeper conversation later.
David: Another tip is to (12)______ actively. Showing genuine interest in what the other person is saying can really enhance the interaction. Nodding and responding appropriately can make the other person feel valued.
Sarah: Definitely! Listening is just as important as speaking. And don’t forget to ask (13)______ in return. It helps keep the conversation balanced and engaging.
David: Speaking of engagement, it’s important to remember (14)______. When you meet someone new, try to remember their name and use it during the conversation. It personalizes the interaction.
Sarah: Yes! People love hearing their names. It makes them feel acknowledged and special. And if you forget, don’t hesitate to ask again!
David: Another point to consider is being (15)______. People can usually tell when someone is being insincere. Being yourself and showing genuine enthusiasm can leave a lasting impression.
Sarah: Absolutely! Authenticity shines through, and it helps create a (16)______. And one last thing—be mindful of your tone of (17)______. The way you speak can convey warmth and friendliness.
David: Exactly! A friendly tone can make a huge difference in how your message is received.
Sarah: So, to sum it up, making a good first impression involves a combination of a warm smile, confident body language, appropriate dress, and active listening.
David: And don’t forget to be authentic and (18)______! Those qualities can really set you apart in someone’s memory.
EXERCISE 2: True, False, Not Given
Instruction: Read each statement carefully and mark it as True, False, or Not Given based on the conversation.
David thinks making a good first impression is not very important.
Sarah believes that a smile can make people feel comfortable.
Eye contact conveys dishonesty during a conversation.
David says slouching can make you appear disinterested.
Sarah suggests wearing casual clothes to a job interview.
Both speakers agree that small talk is helpful for starting conversations.
David says remembering someone’s name personalizes interactions.
Sarah mentions asking questions keeps a conversation one-sided.
David believes being insincere leaves a better impression.
Sarah and David agree that tone of voice impacts how messages are received.
EXERCISE 3: Multiple Choice Questions
Instruction: Choose the correct answer for each question based on the information from the conversation.
What does Sarah suggest as a great way to start a good first impression?
a. Maintaining eye contact
b. Offering a firm handshake
c. A friendly smile
d. Asking about someone’s nameAccording to David, what does maintaining eye contact during a conversation show?
a. Nervousness
b. Confidence and engagement
c. Curiosity
d. Lack of sincerityHow does body language contribute to first impressions, according to Sarah?
a. It’s not very important
b. It shows how confident and interested you are
c. It doesn’t affect interactions
d. It’s irrelevant compared to your tone of voiceWhat example does David give for dressing appropriately?
a. Meeting a new friend
b. Attending a job interview
c. Going to a party
d. TravelingWhat does Sarah say about small talk?
a. It helps break the ice
b. It makes conversations awkward
c. It should be avoided in formal settings
d. It’s only useful for making jokesWhat does David recommend doing when you forget someone’s name?
a. Avoid using their name
b. Ask for their name again
c. Change the subject
d. Apologize repeatedlyWhy is being authentic important, according to David?
a. It makes you appear serious
b. People notice insincerity easily
c. It reduces nervousness
d. It’s unnecessary in casual settingsWhat type of questions does Sarah suggest for small talk?
a. Deep personal questions
b. Light conversation topics
c. Political debates
d. Technical questionsHow does David suggest improving engagement in conversations?
a. Avoid direct eye contact
b. Interrupt frequently
c. Remember names and use them
d. Speak loudlyWhat quality does Sarah highlight as crucial for tone of voice?
a. Warmth and friendliness
b. Seriousness
c. Assertiveness
d. Humor
EXERCISE 4: Matching Information
Instruction: Match each phrase to the correct point made by the speakers (Sarah or David).
EXERCISE 5: Sentence Rearrangement
Instruction: Rearrange the jumbled sentences to form coherent statements related to the conversation.
one / you / chance / make / to / impression / a / good / only / have
the / a / smile / way / great / to / start / friendly / is
can / a / people / at / put / instantly / smile / ease
crossing / slouching / arms / can / defensive / come / off / as
dressing / for / the / occasion / essential / is / appropriately
make / can / small / ice / talk / the / break
your / listening / showing / interest / in / can / interaction / enhance
a / tone / friendly / can / voice / huge / difference / make
names / try / during / use / conversation / it / the / new / to
being / is / authentic / important / being / and / when / meeting / sincere
EXERCISE 6: Choose the Correct Word
Instruction: Fill in the blanks with the correct word from the options provided.
A friendly smile can ___ people feel comfortable.
a. make
b. force
c. cause
d. helpMaintaining ___ contact shows confidence.
a. hand
b. eye
c. verbal
d. physicalCrossing your arms can seem ___.
a. confident
b. approachable
c. defensive
d. friendlyDressing appropriately for the occasion shows ___.
a. respect
b. indifference
c. nervousness
d. arroganceLight conversation topics help ___ into a deeper discussion.
a. freeze
b. ease
c. jump
d. diveActive listening can make the other person feel ___.
a. ignored
b. valued
c. irrelevant
d. distractedPeople love hearing their ___.
a. opinions
b. names
c. accomplishments
d. storiesBeing ___ helps create genuine connections.
a. defensive
b. serious
c. authentic
d. reservedA friendly ___ of voice makes a difference.
a. tone
b. speed
c. rhythm
d. loudnessRemembering names ___ interactions.
a. complicates
b. personalizes
c. dismisses
d. disrupts
EXERCISE 7: Sentence Reordering
Instruction: Put the sentences in the correct order to recreate a summary of the conversation.
A friendly smile and maintaining eye contact can make people feel at ease and build trust.
Body language, such as sitting up straight, shows confidence and interest.
Dressing appropriately and maintaining good hygiene demonstrate respect for others.
Small talk, like asking simple questions, can help start conversations comfortably.
Active listening and nodding make the other person feel valued.
Remembering and using someone’s name adds a personal touch.
Being authentic and enthusiastic creates genuine connections.
A warm and friendly tone of voice enhances communication.
All these elements work together to create a positive first impression.
Being authentic and engaged sets you apart in someone’s memory.
EXERCISE 8: Opinion Writing
Instruction: Based on the conversation, write a brief paragraph (3-5 sentences) sharing your own opinion on how to make a good first impression. Support your response with reasons.ANSWER KEY
EXERCISE 1: Fill in the Blanks
affect
consider
smile
contact
trust
feel
appearance
interview
hygiene
ice
weather
listen
questions
names
authentic
connection
voice
engaged
EXERCISE 2: True, False, Not Given
False
True
False
True
False
True
True
False
False
True
EXERCISE 3: Multiple Choice Questions
c. A friendly smile
b. Confidence and engagement
b. It shows how confident and interested you are
b. Attending a job interview
a. It helps break the ice
b. Ask for their name again
b. People notice insincerity easily
b. Light conversation topics
c. Remember names and use them
a. Warmth and friendliness
EXERCISE 4: Matching Information
Exercise 5: Sentence Rearrangement
You only have one chance to make a good impression.
A friendly smile is a great way to start.
A smile can instantly put people at ease.
Crossing your arms or slouching can come off as defensive.
Dressing appropriately for the occasion is essential.
Small talk can help break the ice.
Showing interest in listening can enhance the interaction.
A friendly tone of voice can make a huge difference.
Try to remember their name and use it during the conversation.
Being authentic and sincere is important when meeting someone new.
Exercise 6: Choose the Correct Word
make
eye
defensive
respect
ease
valued
names
authentic
tone
personalizes
Exercise 7: Sentence Reordering
A friendly smile and maintaining eye contact can make people feel at ease and build trust.
Body language, such as sitting up straight, shows confidence and interest.
Dressing appropriately and maintaining good hygiene demonstrate respect for others.
Small talk, like asking simple questions, can help start conversations comfortably.
Active listening and nodding make the other person feel valued.
Remembering and using someone’s name adds a personal touch.
Being authentic and enthusiastic creates genuine connections.
A warm and friendly tone of voice enhances communication.
All these elements work together to create a positive first impression.
Being authentic and engaged sets you apart in someone’s memory.
Exercise 8: Opinion Writing
Example Answer:I believe that making a good first impression is essential because it sets the tone for future interactions. A warm smile and confident body language can make others feel comfortable and respected. Personally, I always try to dress appropriately and listen actively, as these actions show care and sincerity. Being authentic and remembering people’s names are additional steps that help create lasting connections.